I’m a great believer in holidays. When you’re away from home, you can see your normal day-to-day life from outside, and it gives you a different perspective. What are you relieved to be away from? How do you chose to pass your days when the constraints of work and other responsibilities are lifted? The answers to these and other questions can surprise you and offer precious insights into fruitful changes you might choose to make when you get home.
As a dreamer, one of the things I enjoy about holidays is that my dream life also shifts perspective. Holiday dreams usually have a different quality, and bring in new kinds of imagery. It was during a holiday many years ago that I first encountered the faceless ones, and began to engage with the archetypes, those images which Jung called ‘pieces of life itself.’
Holidays are times when you can wake slowly and really savour your dreams. You can carry them around with you during the day, and ponder them in quiet moments. The images you bring home with you will have the same sense of time and place as the physical souvenirs you buy.
As a writer, I find the same shift in perspective. Ideas I’ve been working on at home seem different from far away. Sometimes more exciting, sometimes less. They form up in unexpected ways; they show different aspects of themselves to me. I’m sure that’s why so many writers go on writing retreats.
You don’t have to go to exotic places or spend a fortune in order to feel the benefits of going on holiday. In fact, like many other people, I usually go to familiar places I love. The point is simply to be somewhere else, to look at things from a different angle for a while, and come back to normal life feeling renewed.

Have you ever found that being away from home gave you new ideas about life, work or dreams?
I haven’t been on holiday for a very long time (although I’m having a winter one in the snowy Alps in January, which I’m so excited about). However having moved to a new house after 13 years has felt a bit like a holiday because I’m only in this temporary one from March to July. It’s given me a new perspective on what’s important in my life, and made me feel less pressurized to achieve, even though I’ve been enjoying being busy. I feel like a different person and the dreams reflect that with their flourishing landscapes and a multitude of wildlife.
What a lovely uplifting comment – thank you! I Suppose it isn’t just holidays, but any sideways step for a while. Sounds like such a fruitful time for you, josie.
I will never look at holidays the same way again. I can’t wait for my next holiday and the chance to dream more.
I hope you’ll blog about it!